Tuesday, August 3, 2010

How to Get Rich and Have Everything!

Sunday, Aug 1, 2010

“How to Get Rich and Have Everything!”

7th in a Series

LIFE: Upside Down

Teaching Pastor Barry Wingfield

Remember how you used to define what “rich” was?

2 Cor 6:10(b) “poor, yet making many rich; having nothing, and yet possessing everything.”[1]

The one word, sure fire, can’t miss, 100% guaranteed, full proof way to get rich quick and have everything: POVERTY

2 Cor 8:1-9

How the poverty of Christ equals riches for you:

1. The gospel is free to you, but it was bought at the highest price.

1 Cor 6:20; 7:23; Acts 20:28; Rom 8:32
Too often we treat the grace God has poured out on us like a child who goes to a famous art museum and is handed a what he thought was a copy of an original masterpiece but which was actually the priceless original itself, who within 5 minutes goes from admiring it, to adding to it with crayons, and then to leaving it under his bed with other trash and forgotten toys.

2. You can’t buy salvation, but it will cost you everything.

Philippians 3:7-8

Matthew 13:44-46

Jesus isn’t teaching that it can be bought, but rather the new attitude toward life that is lived out by the one who recognizes its value.

Again, too many Christians tend to live like they bought the pearl on ebay at an online auction for .01 because no one else bid on it! “Hey, look! I got the deal of the century! A valuable pearl, one I know I could probably never afford to buy in a store, but I got it for a steal, and you know the best thing about it? I didn’t have to hawk all my stuff to get it!”

(If it doesn’t, then it’s cheap grace.)

Our family visited the first and longest running Nazi concentration camp from WWII this summer. It was a very sobering experience that reminds everyone who visits such a place of the depth of evil that exists in the human race. Yet one concentration camp victim would be executed, not because he was Jewish, not because he was a communist, not because he was sick or had physical malformations.

What’s so ironic about this 20th century theologian who wrote about cheap grace is that his words were published in 1937 and just 8 years later, in 1945, he would demonstrate to the world exactly what costly grace was all about when he spent his last days in a Nazi concentration camp and experienced a martyr’s death. Dietrich Bonhoeffer earned his seminary doctorate in his early 20’s and then spent the next several years travelling the world studying the church. He studied in the US in New York and then traveled through the deep south visiting mainly in black churches with some of his closest American friends who were African American themselves. He also studied the Catholic Church in Mexico and Rome (including a visit with the Pope), and took pastor positions in Spain, London, and Berlin, all of which occurred before WWII began. Before he, or anyone else, had any idea that he would die a martyr’s death for his convictions in a Nazi prison camp by hanging. As early as 1936, Bonhoeffer was distraught over what he saw Christians around him buying into. They were living lives on the basis of what he saw as “cheap grace”: (The Cost of Discipleship, pg 44-47).

"Cheap grace is the deadly enemy of our Church. We are fighting today for costly grace. Cheap grace means grace sold on the market like cheapjacks’ wares. ... Grace without price; grace without cost! The essence of grace, we suppose, is that the account has been paid in advance; and, because it has been paid, everything can be had for nothing.... 45

Cheap grace means grace as a doctrine, a principle, a system. It means forgiveness of sins proclaimed as a general truth, the love of God taught as the Christian 'conception' of God. An intellectual assent to that idea is held to be of itself sufficient to secure remission of sins.... In such a Church the world finds a cheap covering for its sins; no contrition is required, still less any real desire to be delivered from sin. Cheap grace therefore amounts to a denial of the living Word of God, in fact, a denial of the Incarnation of the Word of God. 45-46

Cheap grace means the justification of sin without the justification of the sinner. Grace alone does everything they say, and so everything can remain as it was before. 'All for sin could not atone.' Well, then, let the Christian live like the rest of the world, let him model himself on the world’s standards in every sphere of life, and not presumptuously aspire to live a different life under grace from his old life under sin....

Cheap grace is the grace we bestow on ourselves. Cheap grace is the preaching of forgiveness without requiring repentance, baptism without church discipline, Communion without confession.... Cheap grace is grace without discipleship, grace without the cross, grace without Jesus Christ, living and incarnate. 47

Costly grace is the treasure hidden in the field; for the sake of it a man’ will gladly go and self all that he has. It is the pearl of great price to buy which the merchant will sell all his goods. It is the kingly rule of Christ, for whose sake a man will pluck out the eye which causes him to stumble, it is the call of Jesus Christ at which the disciple leaves his nets and follows him.

Costly grace is the gospel which must be sought again and again and again, the gift which must be asked for, the door at which a man must knock. Such grace is costly because it calls us to follow, and it is grace because it calls us to follow Jesus Christ. It is costly because it costs a man his life, and it is grace because it gives a man the only true life. It is costly because it condemns sin, and grace because it justifies the sinner. Above all, it is costly because it cost God the life of his Son: “ye were bought at a price,” and what has cost God much cannot be cheap for us. Above all, it is grace because God did not reckon his Son too dear a price to pay for our life, but delivered him up for us. Costly grace is the Incarnation of God.

Costly grace is the sanctuary of God; it has to be protected from the world, and not thrown to the dogs. It is therefore the living word, the Word of God, which he speaks as it pleases him. Costly grace confronts us as a gracious call to follow Jesus. It comes as a word of forgiveness to the broken spirit and the contrite heart. Grace is costly because it compels a man to submit to the yoke of Christ and follow him; it is grace because Jesus says: “My yoke is easy and my burden is light.”


3. To die rich you have to live poor.

To one claiming to seek the eternal life found through Christ, we find a very challenging response from Jesus.

Matthew 19:16-22

Lights fade to black at the slowing of the reading – immediately play VIDEO at the end of verse 22.

The lie that the rich young man bought was that to die rich, you have to live rich! NOT TRUE Jesus says. In fact, if you are so bent on living rich in this life that you’re unwilling to live poor, then you’ll NEVER be truly rich!!

I think a valid conclusion we can draw from Paul’s teaching and example as well as from Jesus own words is that…

Living poor is a mark of a Jesus follower.

(It has nothing to do with how much money you have, but it has everything to do with what you do with your money and other blessings.)

“Ok, so how, exactly, does one ‘live poor’?”

Paul wants the church in Corinth to know what living poor looks like for them as they live for Christ.

First he challenges them in 8:10-11.

Then he tells them what is really going on with his request in 9:6-15.

Living poor means being rich in

1. Good deeds (vs. 8)

a. Everything supplied to us from God has been given by him so that we would have what we need to overflow with service to Him. Ever wonder why God has blessed you with so much? Now you know.

2. Generosity (vs. 11)

a. Thankfulness to God is directly proportionate to the generosity you exhibit. Not only will others give thanks to God for what he’s has provided through you, but I also believe that you will never be truly thankful for any blessing that you’re unwilling to generously share with others. Don’t have money to give? Do you have food, clothing, or shelter to share with a brother or sister in need? With a stranger in need? Know any Samaritans traveling your path to Jericho?

3. Giving Life (vs. 15, 6:10)

a. Paul’s whole reason for living poor wasn’t for bragging rights, but for the opportunity to be a vessel, a tool, a clay pot in the master’s hands so that the riches of heaven could be poured out on those he was sent to present God’s indescribable gift to. You and I have been given so that through us the riches of heaven might be given.

Ever hear a church described as a “rich church?” What is usually meant by this is the size of their property, how many seats in their worship center, how ornate the fixtures, the blue book value on the average car in their parking lot.

I’ll confess, and I think every honest pastor would, there are some weak moments when I desire our church to be rich in those ways.

And then God’s spirit corrects me in one way or another and reminds me that a church’s wealth has nothing to do with any of these things. He reminds me that a church of 20 that is rich in good deeds, generosity, and the giving of spiritual riches can be wealthier than a church of 20 thousand that lacks these things.

Church, if God grows us from 500 to 1000 in 2 months and quadruples our budget and building, gives us 20 teaching pastors and a staff of 100, our wealth will remain solely fixed on our daily commitment to living poor because of our wonderful, indescribable, invaluable riches we have in Christ.

The example of the gospel itself is the giving of life through the giving up of life. We have been given life through Jesus life that was given up for us.



The Holy Bible : New International Version, electronic ed. (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1996), 2 Co 6:10.

Sorrowful, Yet Always Rejoicing

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Sorrowful, Yet Always Rejoicing

6th in a Series

LIFE: Upside Down

Teaching Pastor Barry Wingfield

Why does God allow the saved to endure sorrows?

1. To show we follow the Man of Sorrows. (Isa 53:3; Matt 5:11-12; John 15:20, 1 Pet 4:13)

2. It refines and grows our faith. (1 Peter 2:6-7)

A reality sometimes hard to swallow:

The reality is that both unbelievers and believers experience joy and sorrow.

What’s the difference?:

Where do our joys come from?

1. Life in the Lord (Acts 16:31-34; 1 Peter 1:8)

2. Spiritual Treasure (Matt 5:11-12)

3. Unity and Fellowship in Christ (Phil 2:2-3)

Where do our sorrows come from?

1. Division between believers (2 Cor 2:4)

2. Godly sorrows (sin in me) (2 Cor 7:7-11)

3. Rejection of the Gospel (Rom 9:1-4a; 10:1-4; Phil 3:18-19)

What is a Christian to do with joyless sorrow?

1. Check your life to see if there is a sin root to your sorrow

2. Check the location of your current treasures

3. Check your connection to the God of all comfort (2 Cor 1:3-4)

How do we express joy in the midst of sorrows?

1. Through joyful expression (Phil 4:4)

2. Through thankful tears (Rom 12:15)

3. Through comfort given to others (2 Cor 1:5-7; 2 Cor 8:2)

Monday, July 19, 2010

Death at Work

Sunday, July 4, 2010
Death at Work
5th in a Series
LIFE: Upside Down
David Higgins
2 Corinthians 6:9(b)


Suffering is normal for a believer.
John 15: 18-20
Hebrews 11:32-38

Paul chose daily to die to self
Dying to self is not natural to us, so why do it?

Jesus commanded it.
Why wouldn’t we?
When we choose to die to self we truly begin to live.

Three reasons to endure:
  1. Privilege
  2. Urgency
  3. Future glory

Know the difference, die to self, live the difference

Blessed to be HOME!

Alicia and the kids and I were given the great blessing of being given a trip with my entire family (mom, dad, brother and sister and their families) during the last 10 days or so. We had a wonderful time and are thankful for the experiences we were blessed with.

A big THANKS to Oliver Shipman and David Higgins for letting God use them over the last two Sunday's to teach from His word so powerfully. I've already heard the good reports of the encouragement and challenges that they issued for living a life that is truly UPSIDE DOWN!

I also appreciate the elders and church as a whole for encouraging a brief time away. I have realized the need to plan more regular times of refreshment for my own sake and also for the sake of the body here at Cornerstone. It was good to spend extended time with my siblings and their families and especially my mom and dad. Some of you know that my dad has Parkinson's and also has been recently diagnosed with some type of lymphoma in his leg and shoulder. He has surgery scheduled for July 23rd to remove and identify they type and so I appreciate your prayers for his recovery. We are all very thankful he was able to travel safely with the family on this trip. We were able to visit the town of Ipswich, England where 40 years ago he and mom served as missionaries. We were even able to see the house they lived in and met a very nice Indian family who now lives there.

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Remember Haiti? Remember the generosity of this body as we collected and sent funds to aid that country in its recovery? One of the organizations through which we sent funds was Compassion International. We recently received an update on how our contribution has helped.

Because 1 in 50 Haitians lost their lives in this disaster, the level of need has been almost incalculable. In addition to providing shelter, medicine, counseling, and church support, Compassion has used funds like we sent to provide 7,800 gallons of cooking oil, 180,980 pounds of pasta, 255,000 pounds of rice, 31,000 pounds of beans, 62,400 pounds of peanut butter and sugar, and 187,200 pounds of oatmeal.

For a visual of the impact of gifts such as ours have made and continue to make, check out this video: www.compassion.com/haitirelief

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Music and Drama Camp 2010 is underway and the rafters are rattling as I type! What an encouragement to see over 100 children plus dozens of student and adult volunteers involved in this ministry! Pray that the Lord will once again be exalted on the praises of his children!!

Love to all. Blessed to be home...

Barry

Thursday, July 1, 2010

How to Lose Your Life

Sunday, June 20, 2010

How to Lose Your Life

1st in a Series

LIFE: Upside Down

Teaching Pastor Barry Wingfield


Do you remember as a kid exploring different ways to view the world?

Spinning on a merry go round until you couldn’t see straight?

Wearing 3-d glasses for days after you saw your first 3-d movie?

I remember the “hanging bars” on the playground in elementary school. They were really chinup bars, but after school a friend of mine and I would have a contest to see who could hang up side down the longest without falling off or giving up. The first few attempts were pretty weak, but after several days of practice and developing our technique, we became quite skilled at hanging upside down until the our faces were beet read and we couldn’t get down if we wanted to because we had no feeling left in our legs from the loss of blood flow and we were too dizzy to reach up and grab the bar with our hands and flip over, so we just hung there. After a little boredom, we would talk about how different everything looks upside down! The sky was the ground, people and cars stuck to the “roof” because there was now a ceiling over everything, balls on the playground bounced “down” then stuck to the ceiling, and the kids that came up to talk to us looked really funny and we would laugh at their mouth that was at the top of their heads and spoke with their chins going up! You could see inside their noses and their eyelids closed up when they blinked. They were all so weird! The whole world was weird!

The life that Jesus lived and taught, when compared to the ways others lived life and the principles they lived by, seems very much like a life lived upside down. In fact, many of the things Jesus said were the exact opposite of what most people knew to be common sense approaches to understanding and living life. Jesus teaching, and that of his followers later, was illogical, absurd, contradictory, and seemingly impossible! In summary, he taught a life that to everyone else seems very much UPSIDE DOWN.

There are several in this room who are red-cross certified in first aid or as a first responder. Being one of those myself, and having taken the certification course at least 3 times as an adult, I’m always amazed with the simplicity of the instructions of how to save a life. I’m sure I’m over simplifying this, Kathy don’t take my card away if I miss this, but basically it boils down to three things: breathing, heartbeat, and blood flow. Very simple things can be done to maintain these three systems until professionals arrive.

In an UPSIDE DOWN fashion, before Jesus taught how to save a life, he first taught how to lose it. Three very similar statements by Jesus break this teaching down for us:

Three Upside Down ways to lose your life according to Jesus…

1. 1. Find it

Matt 10:37-39(a) Whoever finds his life will lose it

(Define it on your own terms)

2. 2. Save it

Luke 9:18-24(a) 24 For whoever wants to save his life will lose it

Luke 17:33(a) 33 Whoever tries to keep his life will lose it,

(Spending all efforts on self-preservation)

3. Love it

John 12:20-25(a) 25 The man who loves his life will lose it,

(Loving the life the world offers)

What this means is that a person’s life really can be lost.

We get confused! We see smiling faces on People magazine, TV and movie stars talking endlessly about their “wonderful” lives, even your friends on FaceBook who are constantly trying to “one up” all their other friends by extolling their successes or vacations or parties or whatever… and we begin to believe that they have “found” themselves, that they’re being successful in “keeping” it and that they truly “love” these things because they are what make their lives complete!

We tend to speak about half of the spiritual reality of life: people need to be saved. Yes. Why? Because if they aren’t, then they’re lost. Really lost. Without purpose. Without God. Chasing one fleeting promise or dream after another. Trying to create a life worth living out of momentary physical or emotional pleasures. Believing lie after lie and not knowing it.

If living the wisdom of the world is the way to lose your life, it’s also the way to waste a saved life. (Ineffective for the kingdom, selfish more than giving, displaying anger and resentment and jealousy more than joy and peace and thankfulness.)

Colossians 3:5-10

Jesus was focused on those who were lost because he came to find and save them. Lk 19:10

Even though he comes to us bringing and offering salvation from being lost, he comes to us with a life worth finding and keeping…he still allows us to pursue our own life if we love it more than Him.

Luke 18:18-23

18 A certain ruler asked him, “Good teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?”

19 “Why do you call me good?” Jesus answered. “No one is good—except God alone. 20 You know the commandments: ‘Do not commit adultery, do not murder, do not steal, do not give false testimony, honor your father and mother.’a

21 “All these I have kept since I was a boy,” he said.

22 When Jesus heard this, he said to him, “You still lack one thing. Sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”

23 When he heard this, he became very sad, because he was a man of great wealth.[1]

Conclusion

Am I trying to find my purpose in human relationships or human achievement?

Am I spending most of my energy and time and thoughts on ME?

Am I falling more in love with this world?

The answers to these questions matter…!! If these answers are YES or even MOST OF THE TIME… then I may be going my own way…!!



a a Exodus 20:12-16; Deut. 5:16-20

[1] The Holy Bible : New International Version, electronic ed. (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1996), Lk 18:18–23.